We recently received a question from a reader named J about the health risks associated with a creampie gangbang that she had arranged for her 30th birthday during a trip to Europe:
I’m turning 30 in July and have been into group sex since my early 20’s. Very experienced with gangbangs, anal, DP etc. This summer I’m organizing a party for myself. Traveling to Europe. The organizers (husband and wife) have been doing this for like 15 years or so. It’s a controlled environment. Everyone vetted. A nice clean, open place. We’re still working out details but there’d be a sofa, sex chair, etc. Some mirrors around.
About 6 – 8 very experienced men. Basically, I’m going to get fucked in every hole. Very intense, very hardcore. Kinky positions. Full nelson being one. Some planning but just enough to make things go smoothly. Work out some “scenes”. The aim is to go for about 2+ hours. I just want to be the nastiest slut during this. My bday present to myself. I’m going to orgasm like crazy.
So, it’s going to be bareback. Everyone will be tested. I’ll be taking PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) for protection against HIV. I know there is still risk involved but I’m doing what I can to minimize it.
I’m just wondering if there is anything else I might consider. There will be cum in my pussy and ass. I am planning to get tested more than once after I come back. I’ll be holding off on sex until tested…
…Could I still catch an STI? Sure. I’m be on birth control but is there a non zero chance I could be impregnated? Yeah. I’m will to take the risk to experience this.
Hello J,
In my view of things, swinging / recreational promiscuity is a hobby — it is something that we do to take our minds off of work, the daily grind, and to add a layer of pure excitement and pleasure to life — and, like most hobbies, there is an element of risk. However, when compared with hobbies like mountaineering, rock climbing, long distance bicycling, backwoods hiking, boxing, international travel, hanging out late at night in bars … I strongly feel that the risks inherent to being a responsible slut are relatively slim.
In fact, I would say that the excitement to risk ratio of the slut life is far better than just about any other physical hobby out there. Almost invariably, with excitement comes risk, and we must choose to accept it if we want to have a life that is worth living.
If you enjoy motocross you may crash and break some bones; if you enjoy having sex with a bunch of people you may need to go to the doctor to get some antibiotics.
While this of course isn’t a reason to avoid precaution, even if you have unprotected sex with someone who is STI positive it is not guaranteed that they will pass it on to you. If you’re a woman having sex with a dude who has chlamydia there’s a 45% chance that you get it. The rate is a bit higher for gonorrhea at 80%. For syphilis, it’s 30%. As far as HIV is concerned, if you’re a woman having vaginal intercourse with a dude who is positive the probability of infection is 1 in 1,234.
If you told a mountain climber that they have a 1 in 1,234 chance of dying on each climb I imagine they would be like fuck yeah and feel virtually invincible.
However, the HIV infection rate of receptive anal with an infected partner is significantly higher, at 1 in 72 … and you will be banging multiple guys who are cumming in your ass.
But we also have to take into account that you are doing this gangbang with organizers that you trust and with men are vetted and have shown STI test results. Plus, on top of it all you said that you will be on PREP.
It seems to me that your chances of getting any STIs from this encounter are slim, and getting HIV in particular is near zero. It is my opinion that you’d probably stand a better chance of slipping and falling off a cliff while hiking in the French Alps.
For perspective, I am a part of a few different gangbang groups in NYC. Two of them focus on raw play and the dudes test regularly. I’ve been a part of these groups for years, I go to sex parties just about every weekend, I regularly meet with partners privately and have threesomes, foursomes, etc, I’ve had sex with hundreds of people, and I haven’t had a positive STI result yet — and I get tested every other month.
In fact, nobody that I know in the scene has ever had anything worse than a periodic bout of chlamydia or gonorrhea or they’re carriers of herpes (which is so common that it’s not even really tested for), and, once you remove the stigma, these infections are really nothing to be too concerned about — they’re basically the slut’s equivalent of a sprained ankle, to use another sports analogy.
Of course, this isn’t to say that you should be lackadaisical about sexual health, but that the common preventative measures that we use — condoms or testing — work. Use them, trust them.
This is all to say that I find no reason for you to worry about your birthday bang. You very much seem like a responsible slut and that you are doing everything you can to effectively mitigate the risk. Have fun, let loose, and enjoy it.
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