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Q&A: How To Find An Online Mutual Masturbation Partner

If you'd like to find someone to play with entirely virtually, this is where to start.

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We were recently asked the following question on our Twitter channel:

“I thoroughly enjoy your platform Thank you .. as a virile single (& yes lonely) man do you have any tips or leads as to how to find a online female (Blue eyes only) masturbation buddy”

First of all, I have to say that I recommend against men masturbating. It rewires our minds and can get us locked into that form of sexual stimulation, which can have an adverse impact if we suddenly want to be with other people. That said, if mutual masturbation is your end goal, then go for it.

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These are the steps that I would recommend taking to find an online mutual masturbation partner:

As you are looking for a virtual connection rather than one in real life, there is no need to bother with courtship protocols like meeting first at a bar and all that. Location is also irrelevant. You can just jump right to it, meet people anywhere in the world, and keep the entire engagement completely virtual. This makes things significantly easier.

My first step would be to try out some of the swinger / dating apps that have platforms for groups, forums, or for posting classifieds.

I believe the best for this would be Swing Lifestyle, otherwise known as SLS. This is probably the largest swinging community on the planet, with over 10,000 new members joining each week. They provide the option to create a profile to show who you are and what you’re about, contact members privately, post on their forums, as well as publish what they call a “hot date,” which is basically a classified ad.

Their forum and hot date options would probably be best to try to find what you’re looking for. So I would sign up with them, make a really good profile where you clearly state that you’re looking for a mutual masturbation partner, post some good photos of yourself, a story or two that explains why you’re looking for a partner for this activity, and then start connecting with people: hit the forums and start posting hot dates.

You can check it out here.

Fetlife could also be a good option for finding a virtual mutual masturbation partner. This is an entire social network dedicated to all flavors of kink that has a critical mass of users. In other words, if you can’t find someone who’s into what you are here, you’ll probably not be able to find it anywhere. Sign up, build a good profile, and then start browsing the groups section — there are tons of communities here dedicated to masturbation. If you ever hit the end of this, don’t be shy about contacting other users who you may like to do this with. Just be respectful and … for a lack of a better term, normal. You should be able to find what you’re looking for here.

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Another option would be a site like¬†Chaturbate. The entire idea of this site is virtual mutual masturbation, so you should be able to find what you’re looking for here without needing to go through all the preliminaries. I’d simply sign up, get some tokens, find a girl you like, and then click the option to go into a private chat room. Once in a private room you can click on the cam to cam option and broadcast yourself as well.

You can check it out here.

Let us know how this works out for you and what you decide to do. Have fun!

Walk Slow,



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Ender Wilder
Ender Wilderhttps://swingingsolution.com
Ender Wilder is a former big media journalist and author who escaped from that world to be able to write about anything he wants. He has been actively living the swinging life with his wife for many years, and is available to coach those who are just getting into the lifestyle or have hit some bumps along the road.



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